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PopStar
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posted on 01-21-2011 at 05:49 |
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Should we be virgin till marriage
If you truly are in love, it is no sin. Its a special closeness and passion that you can't feel any other way.
I think waiting until marriage is overrated and unnecessary. And I can not think of a benefit besides making sure you don't get an STD, but if you are safe you wont get one either.
Waiting until marriage does not make it any more special if its with someone you truly love. But it does make your relationship leading up to your marriage more enjoyable and creates more special, intimate moments.
And god does not praise you for being a virgin until married. He will not shun you or give you bad karma, or whatever else others believe. If that were true, most of the world would be truly shunned and unhappy. But clearly, that is not true.
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friend4354
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posted on 02-08-2011 at 07:49 |
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I am well familiar with these opinions.
The only thing you can think of by waiting is avoiding an STD - a physical, material thing.
In fact, when a woman demands her man wait for her he feels very special. It makes it more difficult to attain her. She is special.
Sex is reproductive behaviour. When two human beings engage in this behaviour, their bodies react in preparation of a child, whether you kill off this possibility or not using effective birth control.
A woman secretes hormones that bonds her to the man. A man more easily can leave her. The solution to this situation is to get married, since, according to our biological reactions, the woman is prepared to nurture a child.
For sure, sex is an amazing experience, but there are also reproductive results, even when no child is actually born.
I have not included God in these arguments, since that is a religious question. I have merely stated biological facts and emotional reactions due to increased hormone production.
'If you truly are in love, it is no sin. Its a special closeness and passion that you can't feel any other way.
I think waiting until marriage is overrated and unnecessary. And I can not think of a benefit besides making sure you don't get an STD, but if you are safe you wont get one either.
Waiting until marriage does not make it any more special if its with someone you truly love. But it does make your relationship leading up to your marriage more enjoyable and creates more special, intimate moments.
And god does not praise you for being a virgin until married. He will not shun you or give you bad karma, or whatever else others believe. If that were true, most of the world would be truly shunned and unhappy. But clearly, that is not true. '
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anonymousperson
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posted on 06-18-2011 at 04:00 |
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shell we be virgins until merriage
a big huge no no, at least for me
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alisamoran99
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posted on 07-21-2011 at 00:29 |
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virgins until merriage
It's good for everyone to be virgins till marriage. It definitely help to stop to spread lot's of diseases like AIDS/HIV, or other STD problem. Because of losing the virginity probably teenager facing lot's of problem.
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Leonie
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posted on 11-21-2011 at 20:34 |
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Hmm...
Personally, I don't want to wait until marriage. I want to wait until I find a partner who is right for me.
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Shona
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posted on 02-05-2012 at 02:39 |
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loosing virginity by masterbation
But, what if a girl looses virginity while masterbating,before marriage, bt never have let any guy touch her. does she still have cheated her would be husband? does she have to answer her family and husband for d same? wil she risk her, for getting married.
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Shona
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posted on 02-05-2012 at 02:39 |
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loosing virginity by masterbation
But, what if a girl looses virginity while masterbating,before marriage, bt never have let any guy touch her. does she still have cheated her would be husband? does she have to answer her family and husband for d same? wil she risk her, for getting married.
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