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Author: stephensam Subject: No Pleasure
oneisenough
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posted on 01-02-2015 at 16:28 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
No Pleasure

There were a few attempts where I tried to masturbate. I would feel uncomfortable, embarrassed, and scared, so I would stop.

I feel as though I am not meant to experience sexual pleasure. Also, I have never dated nor kissed.

I am certain I am probably identified with asexuality. What does anyone think? Is this justified?
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posted on 03-10-2015 at 23:44 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
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'There were a few attempts where I tried to masturbate. I would feel uncomfortable, embarrassed, and scared, so I would stop.

I feel as though I am not meant to experience sexual pleasure. Also, I have never dated nor kissed.

I am certain I am probably identified with asexuality. What does anyone think? Is this justified?'


I've been through that as well, but I've yet to put it off as asexuality, because I still yearn to have a sexual experience with somebody.

I do masturbate, but it's nothing I do regularly. I'm actually very reluctant to do it even when the need is so strong. At this rate I think I do it because my body asks for it so much during times of stress, but it's nothing I resort to for the pleasure of it all... The first few times I tried to masturbate actually, I was also very uncomfortable and I felt silly, not knowing if I was doing it right or wrong, until I eventually got the hang of it. It wasn't that much of a big deal afterwards though.

Even now, I still feel ashamed, thinking I'm doing wrong. Every time, it's always the same selfish thoughts that I'm doing wrong or that I'm dirty or something, but it has nothing to do with religion ! Just in case that came to mind. lol I'm actually not very religious, I'm catholic but I rarely attend church or convey in prayers. The feeling of dirtiness and shame doesn't come from that... Idk where it stems from really, but it's there.

I'm not very experienced in the topic of masturbation or its causes, but from my own experience, I gather that it's mostly just me becoming more self-aware of the fact that I'm an adult that's still a virgin, blatantly refusing to have sex while all the while being perfectly capable of finding a partner to have sexual intercourse with...

I think we're just scared to go there. At least I am.
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posted on 09-22-2017 at 02:14 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
COOL

Keep cool and calm ...when your doing the masturbate.
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